hello my dear friends good morning and good evening namaste namaskar a warm welcome to one and all of you yet another day yet another session yet another topic and the very reason why we are having these sessions is not just only to motivate you but it is to ensure that you learn the values of life and the second aspect is while you go through any sorts of problems and troubles what comes in front of you are the values of this life and that's what is going to build you as an overcomer and it's very important to overcome struggles overcome the troubles overcome the problems else you will be stuck you will be stagnant and that will be a kind of a force which will pull you backward instead of marching forward in life you will start walking backward that's the reason we see Many people's life are kind of backslidden. They are not able to achieve certain things. They are not successful. They are not victorious. Everything they do is full of errors, mistakes and failures. The very reason, the root cause, the underlying cause is they are not overcomers. All right. So today, we are going to review a very important topic about not one person, but many people. Right. and the entitlement of that person or that many people will be encompassed in one singular tense, neighbor. Okay. So the title of the session is, why is your neighbor a very important person? First of all, many people disagree with this title. Hey, my friend, you do not know about my neighbor man. He is a dog, he is a cat, he is a devil, he is a demon. So many things you will talk right hang on hold it okay now let's talk about many things and towards the end we will revisit this definition or the the kind of definition you have for your neighbor first question is what is your understanding of this term neighbor neighbor by definition if you refer oxford dictionary it will tell you a person who lives to your next door and in literal tense if you look at this definition you always tend to assume a person living next to your residence or probably you are in an apartment you are in flat right a person who's in your living or dwelling in opposite to your opposite door or the neighbor and all that right it's always referred to a structure a residential structure and that's how you call as neighbors this is the actual definition But actually the definition doesn't stop there. The definition is likely to get extended to many other factors, many other nomenclatures, many other people. Actual definition is any person who is standing by your side, wherever you go, that person is your neighbor also. Yes a person who is living next to your door is definitely a neighbor but then for example a colleague or colleagues at your workplace whoever are surrounding surrounding you neighbors You traveling by bus probably a public transport Whoever travels your co neighbors. Are you going for a walk, for example, in an open area or in a stadium or a park or somewhere? Whoever is walking in that environment or in that limited, you know, kind of environment, They are your neighbors, right? So, these are the extended facts, the extended nomenclatures. Why are these people very, very important, especially when it comes to neighbors? Very, very important is because simple fact. Today is going to be a very short session. Simple fact is they are the person who will come to your rescue immediately. Probably when you are driving your vehicle, right? Many vehicles follow you and they kind of depart. follow you and depart whoever is kind of coming along with following means not literally following you to spy on you no no whoever is kind of coming close by they are your neighbors if you have this kind of attitude you will definitely ensure that you have that respect for your neighbor why should i respect my neighbor beloved listening to me all of us go through certain unprecedented events, unpredicted emergencies in life. Good example, while you're riding your vehicle. It's not your cousin, brother, your uncle, aunt, your parents, your husband, your wife is going to come along with you. Some unknown XYZ, some unknown person is going to come along with you. The moment you hit by a stone or something, you slip off and you fall down. These are the neighbors who will rush to your rescue. Have you noticed this or not? A person who calls for ambulance, a person who calls for, you know, something or gets and gets water and a person who lifts you up, a person who lifts your bike and take you to the side of the road and ensure that you're all right. Who are these fellows? How do you know? Do you know them? No, you don't know. These 10, 20 people, they rush to your rescue. They are your neighbors. That's why you got to have this exposition of kindness and respect towards anyone that are with you, wherever you go. For example, at your workplace, you end up in an emergency. I know many, many, many, many, many friends of mine and known ones who have got a kind of a cardiac arrest at their workplace. And it is their, it is their neighbors, their colleagues, you know, they may have differences in their relationship and they don't like each other. But the moment a person is struggling to breathe, start battling for his life, they're not going to stay quiet. They rush and they help you and they kind of get you to the emergency ward and all that. And, you know, you're taken care, you know. That's why you need to have that respect for any human being that are with you. Only the places are going to vary. Probably you're traveling from your resident to the neighboring hotel. From hotel, you go to somewhere else. from there you go to your office from office you go to somewhere else and then you're traveling back even on the road do not have that rage see how will you have a road rage tell me good example something happens to me in the middle of the road It is these fellows whom you looked at with a lot of irritation annoyance Look at him. He is not applying brake. Look at him. He is not putting that right indicator. Many people are very popular for, you know, switching on the right indicator and turning to the left. Yes, these people irritate you. And at the end of the day, they are human beings. I keep telling you this. The underlying definition for a human being is to help each other. to support each other, to love one another and be kind to one another. That's how we build a healthy society. Correct? See, at the end of the day, you know, it is the citizens' attitude that matters for a healthy nation. How much ever the government may try to enforce laws and bring all sorts of awareness and all that, who are the executioners on the ground? It is citizens like you and me. Therefore, you and I will need to have that responsibility. What can instill that responsibility? Definitions and awareness and certain nomenclatures where you need to get complete visibility and enunciation. That's exactly what we are doing here. So where is the room for road rage on the road? Where is the room for all sorts of ego clashes? Where is the room for all the competitions at your workplace? I'm talking about that. Where is the room for all sorts of difference in opinion and superiority complex at home? I am husband, you are wife and you should always listen. You may be in emergency and it is your wife who is going to stand by your side. It is your child who is going to stand by your side or your old parents. They are going to help you. The moment you think of this, first thing that comes on top of your mind and bottom of your heart is humility. You will be a very humble person. You will not take any pride. You will not have any ego clashes. You will learn to be very, very humble and kind. You will have that forgiving sense. You'll be a person who's full of sober minded, lowliness and mindset. All these things you don't have to go and get special coaching, yoga classes, laughter therapy early in the morning and consulting counselors. And, you know, I'm always short tempered. Why are you short tempered? Because you have not understood the value of your neighbor. Right. Against whom are you getting short tempered? Against some person or many people or a, you know, community or a society or a politician or this person or that person. forget forget everyone right certain certain certain reasons for short-tempered a short tempered short-tempered person listening to me certain reasons for your you know quick spark up of your anger sometimes is senseless is meaningless at the end of the day it is the people that are going to really come to your rescue and learn to respect the people that are around you right i repeat this for the 10th time I think right the moment you get this clear yeah you know the government will have to do nothing that there is a play place in some part of the world I forgot they shut down the police stations why because there is no theft somewhere in Japan I think so there is no theft because their law was enforced so stricter that didn work but when they start building this kind of awareness program where they start to educate people why you should consider someone as your closest neighbor why you should be kind to one another then they understood Because in this world I told you right you don have to run for emergencies Emergencies come in search of you And who are those people who are coming to your rescue are these neighbors And where is the room for your fight with your neighboring resident? Fine, there are some nuisances. Probably they have a pet and that is always causing nuisance or loud music and this and that. But the moment they hear of a cry or an uproar or anything like that, they immediately come to your rescue. They won't sit quiet. Yeah, one in millions are like this hard heart. We can't do anything about it. But don't look at one in millions. Look at the rest of the people in that million, you know, that portion. The rest of the people are good. For one or two bad examples, do not ill-treat people. Do not come to a judgmental conclusion that all are like this. No, that is a wrong attitude, right? I hope today you have understood the definition of a neighbor and the value of a neighbor. Why these two nomenclages are very important is this will instill a lot of humility, kindness, care for one another, love for one another, forgive one another, put an end to all these ego clashes, superiority complexities and all that. One emergency can make you humble. But even before that, if you are humble, people will anyway come for help. But it will be more convincing for you to receive that help. You don't have to live the rest of your life in guilt and all that. And you will also get that opportunity. I'm not saying that every day you should look around, where is my emergency? Not like that. But even otherwise also, assume there are no emergencies. God bless you that way. Live long, stay healthy, no accidents on the road, no health issues. Fine. God bless you that way. From my heart, I'm saying this. But even otherwise also, you will be an instrument to build that society, that healthy society. Bring people together. You will be a very good example. Looking at you, 10 people will listen to the voice of their heart because, see, your heart speaks the truth, right? It definitely tells you you are wrong. But where are my examples? Everyone are involved in rage. Everyone are involved in selfishness. Everyone are involved in envy, competitions, fights and this and that. Why I alone should be like this? There you are going to stand as a unique example. Looking at you, many people will change, right? And you be the change. As Mahatma Gandhiji, father of Indian nation told it, you be the change. Let the change begin from you and you will see how it spreads like a wildfire, you know. God bless you. Take care. Thank you very much for your time and thank you for listening to this video. If you have not listened to other videos, please listen. But importantly, you subscribe, you will start receiving automatic notifications and share these videos with whomever you know. It's only going to help them. I can guarantee that. It will not take you backward. It will help you to march forward and you will definitely taste a lot of success and victories in your life. Thank you very much. You need a topic, please leave a comment or WhatsApp me. 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